Today, i caught up with a friend.
I felt we had no made any connection for so long. It's probably because of me? Seeing that every of our scheduled meet seem to be postponed on and off, i decided to make it happen today. It was good, because perhaps lately i've not been getting a little feel about what it's like to be unfortunate.
I believe friends are people whom stay neutral and do no attempt to step on your head when the opportunity knocks. I have many friends, be it local or foreign, they simply take a unknowing chance to screw me over. They pretend not to show and or let me be aware but come on, do i look as simply gullible and inexperienced? :P
This friend, however has not changed over the past 6 years. What he was then and what he is now, has made me realized that i had a good friend sitting at my lawn all along. He took the liberty to share his time with me and i felt guilty seeing how busy my schedule was. Nevertheless, we spoke and dine over a 4 seated table.
He spoke about his latest distress and all and somehow i could relate to it, because perhaps its a key of life and what i've been studying over the past few years. And i juz realized, what if i did not receive such education, would i be as clueless as him today?
I was committed and convinced to let him feel convince regarding his dilemma over a specific issue which would actually affect his entire life career development. I never like to get involved in such situations because there's a blindspot of poor judgment and mistrust that will affect a person's life..forever. Such turning point, i never got involved, but today, i stepped over that line and told him that "THIS IS IT!" and "YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT!".
I was glad to know that he managed to swallow my advices down. Some people among friends, they think their balls have outgrown their mouth, and starting to question the ideology of a honest opinion. Perhaps its my pride, or perhaps its your worn myopic intelligence, but at the end of the day, i still take home my say, for i know your piece of intelligence comes from a functional point of view, thus yours doesnt come close.
And among his friends, i managed to spot some rotten eggs among our friends. I never knew that they would come down to this, but i guess money makes the world go round and i had nothing to lose after giving those advices.
But as we spoke, i felt that it might have become sympathy or abit of sadness seeing how unfortunate he has become. he spoke words of uncertainty and risk of his future, the amount of lack of guidance from his parent and seeing that he already lost one of his loved one. i wonder how he has gotten through such a tough period in his life.
And once again, i look at myself in the mirror, just pondering how lucky i am.. to be in this family, my family.
I felt we had no made any connection for so long. It's probably because of me? Seeing that every of our scheduled meet seem to be postponed on and off, i decided to make it happen today. It was good, because perhaps lately i've not been getting a little feel about what it's like to be unfortunate.
I believe friends are people whom stay neutral and do no attempt to step on your head when the opportunity knocks. I have many friends, be it local or foreign, they simply take a unknowing chance to screw me over. They pretend not to show and or let me be aware but come on, do i look as simply gullible and inexperienced? :P
This friend, however has not changed over the past 6 years. What he was then and what he is now, has made me realized that i had a good friend sitting at my lawn all along. He took the liberty to share his time with me and i felt guilty seeing how busy my schedule was. Nevertheless, we spoke and dine over a 4 seated table.
He spoke about his latest distress and all and somehow i could relate to it, because perhaps its a key of life and what i've been studying over the past few years. And i juz realized, what if i did not receive such education, would i be as clueless as him today?
I was committed and convinced to let him feel convince regarding his dilemma over a specific issue which would actually affect his entire life career development. I never like to get involved in such situations because there's a blindspot of poor judgment and mistrust that will affect a person's life..forever. Such turning point, i never got involved, but today, i stepped over that line and told him that "THIS IS IT!" and "YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT!".
I was glad to know that he managed to swallow my advices down. Some people among friends, they think their balls have outgrown their mouth, and starting to question the ideology of a honest opinion. Perhaps its my pride, or perhaps its your worn myopic intelligence, but at the end of the day, i still take home my say, for i know your piece of intelligence comes from a functional point of view, thus yours doesnt come close.
And among his friends, i managed to spot some rotten eggs among our friends. I never knew that they would come down to this, but i guess money makes the world go round and i had nothing to lose after giving those advices.
But as we spoke, i felt that it might have become sympathy or abit of sadness seeing how unfortunate he has become. he spoke words of uncertainty and risk of his future, the amount of lack of guidance from his parent and seeing that he already lost one of his loved one. i wonder how he has gotten through such a tough period in his life.
And once again, i look at myself in the mirror, just pondering how lucky i am.. to be in this family, my family.
"Family, the best asset of one's life." - frostdude
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